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Tuesday, 20 June 2017

Life through a porthole...: Zeigarnik Effect, unfinished work ....and frustrat...

Life through a porthole...: Zeigarnik Effect, unfinished work ....and frustrat...: Zeigarnik Effect, unfinished work ....and frustration... You have not even started a thing and you're thinking about the result!...

Zeigarnik Effect, unfinished work ....and frustration...



You have not even started a thing and you're thinking about the result!:)

In scientific terms, we are talking about the Zeigarnik Effect, the function of our brain that schedules us to finish something started.
The Zeigarnik effect is based on an experiment by a Russian psychologist, Bluma Zeigarnik in 1927, after seeing a strange thing in a coffee shop in Vienna: the waiters only remembered the commands that had to be served and they had not been paid. After a customer left the café, the waiters actually forgot what had been served
In 1982 Kenneth Mc Graw made another test based on the Zeigarnick Effect. His result was that almost 90% of the participants remembered things they had not finished.
Well, the Zeigarnik Effect explains a simple phenomenon that happens in our minds. We remain
connected to things that have begun and are not over.
Very good! ... until it's not that good :)
Because this Zeigarnik Effect can be used by third-party manipulators to keep our minds busy with things / situations left unfinished.
For example in television Zeigarnik effect is used very often. Remember the situations, or the series in which the beautiful :)))..(Hose Armando, Juan, Fernando, etc.) :)) died but in the last sequence appears a miraculous clue that makes you believe they´re alive.
And you stay with your mind there until the next episode, or:...:)) Rambo 1, Rambo 2, Rambo 3 .... Rambo7 ..... Rambo is back ... and the list can continue indefinitely ..
Most of us continually postpone things because it seems to us that what we have to do is too hard, or we're afraid of failure, or we just do not know where to start.
But the Zeigarnik  Effect tells us that our mind is made to want to finish things up.
So the solution to do what you have on the list is to ... Start.
Start anywhere, just.. Start.
Appetite comes with eating, mood  comes  with working!
I know from the experience that it's hard to change a habit, it's hard to change yourself, not because you can not, or because you have no resources, or because you miss something ... No!
The main reason why people change hard (although they live every day frustrated by the unfinished things, the things not done, started... in the head) is because it is much more comfortable to lie to yourself than to admit that you are in a Big shit!
Eventually it is said that the truth will set you free :)) but first you will get angry as hell!

But do not forget "Life's a journey not a destination!"



Sunday, 11 June 2017

Life, through a porthole...,: The Schrödinger's cat ..Why I talk about cats and...

Life, through a porthole...,: The Schrödinger's cat ..Why I talk about cats and...: The Schrödinger's cat .. Why I talk about cats and especially about Schrödinger's cat (especially as his cat demonstrates ...

The Schrödinger´s cat..

The Schrödinger's cat ..



Why I talk about cats and especially about Schrödinger's cat (especially as his cat demonstrates something about quantum theory)...well, very simple :)) because by analogy, Schrödinger's cat demonstrates something in human behaviour as well.
In 1935 Erwin Schrödinger conducted an experiment in which a cat remained in a box for an hour. Together with the cat, there is an ampoule containing a deadly poison.
In this hour, there is a chance that the vial will open and an equal chance that the vial will remain sealed. If the vial containing the poison would be broken, one could say with certainty that the cat is dead :)) as was the case in the bottle remains sealed and the cat has been still living.
Therefore, this demonstrates that: until an observer opens the box to see the condition of the cat, the cat can be considered as living and dead. However, when the box is opened, the cat no longer has a "choice", she is either alive or dead, and this can be said without a doubt.
And what? What does this have to do with us, the people?
Well, the Schrödinger's cat experiment demonstrates When That "something" or "someone" is not Observed, it CAN exist simultaneously in all Possible configurations.
The mere observation of a system forces the system to crash and the "object" or "subject"to remains in a certain state. More specifically, even conceptually, people behave the same in similar circumstances.
In the privacy of the personal space, every person acts with total freedom, without prejudice, but when any person reaches or is brought to the spotlight of society, he / she is forced into a version of himself, who may or may not reflect Our true intentions.
This person (like every person), like Schrodinger's cat, is forced to play a role, though it would have had another option. That makes us confused, creates that state of ambiguity many times, we seem to know each other well and yet .., hmm .. or maybe not! - I thought I knew him /her... hmm?!
The idea is the simple act of observing, the simple fact that we are supervised, changes drastically our behaviour, although lately we live without a wish for it, a continuing state of "Big Brother," not to wonder then, that Everything seems theatrical and fake ..
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Pisica lui Schrödinger


De ce  mi-aș dori eu să vorbesc despre pisici și mai ales despre pisica individului Schrödinger, .. foarte simplu :)) pentru că prin analogie "experimentul lui Schrödinger" se regăsește și în comportamentul uman ..
În 1935 Erwin Schrödinger a efectuat un experiment în care o pisică a rămas într-o cutie timp de o oră. Împreună cu pisica, în cutie se mai află și o fiolă conținând o otrava moartala.În această oră, există o șansă ca flaconul să se deschidă și o șansă egală ca flaconul să rămână sigilat. In cazul in care flaconul ar fi spart, se poate spune cu siguranta ca pisica este moarta, :)) la fel  si cazul in care flaconul rămânea sigilat si pisica ar fi fost vie.
Ce demonstreaza acest lucru? Ei bine asta arata ca: pana ce un observator nu deschide cutia pentru a vedea starea pisicii, pisica poate fi considerata a fi atat vie cat si moarta. Cu toate acestea, în momentul deschiderii cutiei, pisica nu mai are o "alegere". Ea este fie vie, fie morta, și acest lucru se poate spune fără nici o îndoială.
Si ce daca ? Ce are acest fapt a face cu noi? Cu oamenii?
Ei bine, experimentul pisicii lui Schrödinger demonstrează ca: atunci când "ceva" sau "cineva" nu este observat , poate exista simultan in toate configurațiile posibile.
Simpla observare a unui sistem forțează sistemul să se prăbușească și "obiectul" sau "subiectul" să rămână într-o anumită stare. Mai exact, chiar conceptual, oamenii se comportă la fel în circumstanțe similare.În intimitatea spațiului personal, fiecare om acționează cu o libertate totală, fără prejudecăți, dar atunci când acea persoană ajunge, sau este adusă in lumina reflectoarelor societății,el sau ea, este forțat sa ramana într-o versiune a lui" însuși", care poate sau nu să reflecte, adevăratele noastre intenții.
Această persoană ( orice persoană), ca și pisica lui Schrodinger, este obligată să joace un rol, deși, ar fi avut si o altă opțiune. Asta ne face confuzi, creează acea stare de ambiguitate de multe ori, se pare că ne cunoaștem bine și totuși ... hmm .. sau poate nu! - Am crezut că l-am cunoscut ... hmm ?!
Ideea este ca, simplul act de observare, simplul fapt că ne știm supravegheați, schimbă drastic comportamentul nostru, deși în ultima vreme trăim, poate fără sa ne dorim asta, o stare continuă de "Big Brother "..
Să nu ne miram atunci, ca totul pare a fi teatral ambiguu si fals...


Thursday, 8 June 2017

Why are you angry with me?


We humans are a very bourgeois species, we are quickly upset with each other, and we are going through very hard, or ... it is possible to remain upset for eternity. (That's not what happens to dogs, for example ... :)), they only live this moment.)
When people get upset, they turn their backs, they run away from you, they do not talk to you anymore for hours, weeks, years ... or, as the case may be, in this life, or in any other possible life from another parallel universe.
There is another category of people who, when they get upset, they get angry and attack you (in a more subtle or more direct way), depending on the case, age, gender and situation.But why do people react like that? If it is to ask biology, or more precisely neurobiology, everything is very simple.
Neurologically everything depends on the limbic system, the one located somewhere at the lower levels of the human mind, plus the aggressive or regressive behavioural component.
And yet, one word triggers such a behavioural state.
It is true, we are all born with tendencies, but how can it be explained that a single word perceived in that place in our head can trigger so many attitudes, so many reactions in our body, so many facts.
How can a word, (as Dr. Christian Andrei say), alter your blood pressure, alter your corticosteroid level, bloat you with adrenaline?
After many years of research, only in 2016 it became clear, the word that can change so much, the word that makes you upset is the word NO.
The word No, is used since you were a child by those who dominate you, by those who make the rules, the other people.
Since you were a child the people around you have told you things like: It is not allowed !,.. Not now,.. Not you!
Although inside of you, everything is positively dressed, all questions have the answer Yes, especially when you are right!(You have the right to be loved, but you are not the loved one, it is someone else, you have the right to buy something you want, but someone else gets it ... life is full of the word No)
And all these NOT assembled, produce frustrations that come into our limbic system, and we get upset.
So back to "Why are you angry with me?" :))) Because we are educated so..(more precisely, conditioned!), My friend!


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Tuesday, 6 June 2017

The courage to be yourself !



We live in a world of obsessive gravity, around the idea of success, around the idea of perfection, in which the idea of being ourselves, of accepting our vulnerabilities is almost undesirable.
Perhaps by continually trying to cancel our imperfections and erase our emotions, we feel stronger and better attached to the orbit of success, succeeding in our imagination to become like the gods, but at the same time removing ourselves from what is natural and human in us.
Paradoxically, however, you can possess the most coveted and meritorious talents, you can do anything, you can build a whole world, but if you can not forgive, love and suffer, showing the world that you are vulnerable. If you don´t know what it is like to miss someone, or something, you're nothing.
And, even if it sounds weird, but without the courage to be imperfect we will always be deprived of the sense of balance, we will be deprived of the mirage and emotion that only the unpredictability can give us.
Our deep humanity is defined, precisely by this virtue of vulnerability, very rarely lately, a vulnerability that has the potential to transform us when it manifests itself freely.Not only the joys, but also the sadness , make us people so beautiful. Believing that honestly expressed emotions, hurt us, by being attackable is foolish...a madness!

Life through a porthole...: Zeigarnik Effect, unfinished work ....and frustrat...

Life through a porthole...: Zeigarnik Effect, unfinished work ....and frustrat... : Zeigarnik Effect, unfinished work ....and frustration......